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On a campus with only four fraternities, would one house know that I rushed another house and didn't get a bid? Would they ask if I'd rushed before during rush? If so what should my answer be? (Yes, obviously, but would they ask why I didn't get a bid, why I'm rushing again, etc...?) essentially I'm just very clueless about all of this. When I first came to college I barely even knew what a fraternity was. I just knew them as guys that hate cargo shorts. But now I really have an appreciation for them, and I wish I had earlier, because I feel it really would've been beneficial. If I were to ask guys I currently know in a fraternity whether or not they are planning on having rush in the spring, would they think I was being desperate or over eager or something? Or would they be happy I asked? Obviously nobody on this site knows exactly what will happen I'm just really trying to get a feel of what the atmosphere will be like in either spring rush or junior rush. I'm so anxious about all of it already. Not getting a bid to the fraternity I started this thread about was a huge blow to my confidence and pushed me back into a social shell that I thought I left behind in high school. Whether it's that one or one of the others, I am 100% confident that being in a fraternity is something I want to do. I'm sorry I'm just like saying everything at this point it's not even relevant to the original thread...
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