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Old 09-19-2013, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna View Post
. . . (if anybody asks you that, just say you've found a church home - you don't have to elaborate).
I had a friend who used to say he was a "fallen Catholic"—"I get out of bed on Sunday to go to Mass and then fall back in."

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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair View Post
As I matured, I found others who believed differently and we formed close friendships.
Having grown up in a small Southern town, I found one of the most valuable lessons in fraternity life was to see guys who weren't like me as brothers. It was easy to consider guys with similar backgrounds as mine as my brothers. But learning to see guys from very different backgrounds not just as friends but as brothers is a lesson that has stuck with me.

I'm not saying the OP should stick it out when it doesn't feel right just to learn this same lesson. But I wouldn't discount the possibility of forming some real bonds either.

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Originally Posted by DubaiSis View Post
Regarding the religion thing, I can definitely feel your pain. While I was in college I still considered myself Catholic, but now as an adult I really consider myself agnostic (believe there is a god of some sort, not a fan of organized religion). This is something that people of strong faith REALLY can't wrap their mind around.
Some of us can
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