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Originally Posted by PearlGirl13
Hugely disappointed daughter this morning. I'm trying hard to find the right things to say. She was only invited to two pref parties and more importantly did not get invited back to her "favorite". This is soooooo tough.
I'm wishing I had more conversations with her about considering the possibility of NOT pledging anywhere at all. We just both kept saying that we "trusted the process" - which btw, I still do, I'm just not sure if either of these two houses are the right ones for her and if the process is telling her that she would be better off not pledging.
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I can understand your daughter feeling this way. Recruitment makes you exhausted and crazy. But why would you see not pledging as the better option? Did you know many sorority women who were unhappy that they joined?
My experience was that the women in all groups, even the ones who weren't wild about where they pledged at first, tended to be happy they were members.