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Let me rephrase: When they told her they expected her to drink they were basically saying "we know your underage, but we don't expect you to be perfect and all goodie-goodie. We certainly weren't. Sororities will look the other way as long as you keep it classy and not sloppy." At no time was she told that if she didn't drink that she would be cut!!!!
Alumnae were certainly not advising her to drink! And she was sent off with strict advice from mom to behave herself. Daughter decided to participate all on her own, thinking "When in Rome..."
I just didn't realize that being seen drinking is reason enough to cut her from recruitment. Back to my original question, is drinking and socializing helpful or harmful for a successful recruitment. You ladies have answered my questions enough that I am now worried for my daughter!
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