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I would say DTMFA, but he's already broken up with you. Take him at his word and do not expect him to come back.
If I have learned anything in my life, it's to believe people when they show you who they are. He's showing you that he doesn't want to be with you. Do you really want to be waiting around for someone who is trying -- half-heartedly at that -- to keep you as his backup? I don't know about you, but I was not put on this planet to be anyone's second choice.
Sometimes it's hard to accept, but this relationship has changed and no longer fits your needs. Wishing for what you used to have (pre-fraternity) isn't productive. Unfortunately, it sounds like his priorities have changed, and you are no longer one of them. It sucks, but better to find out sooner rather than later.
Go find someone who will *continue* to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, not someone who just used to do so.
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