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Originally Posted by FirePaint
As far as finding a new therapist - I really can't, since I'm using one of the school's free therapists.
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Unless the school only HAS one therapist, yes, you can find another one. You are paying their salary. Squeaky wheel gets the greasin'. Sometimes a therapist (at ANY point of life) is great for person A and awful for person B. Like any other objective service, you need to find the one you like and that fits you. Go to the head of student services and say "My therapist isn't making me feel like I'm getting anywhere. I want to be reassigned."
You've said previously that you go home every weekend, don't participate in social events, don't hang out even casually with other sisters (eating in the student center alone all the time doesn't help) and have a fiance who takes up what seems like your remaining free time. If this has been your m.o. for a year and a half, your sisters don't KNOW you, and by this point just don't see your friendship - even if you're offering it - as a value-add.