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Old 04-02-2013, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by FirePaint View Post
And it gets so exhausting to keep trying to reach out, when I'm the only one doing so. Someone should be trying to reach out to me, too. It's a two-way street.
You can't change your chapter sisters' behavior. You don't have control over it. The only thing you can do is continue to work to make friends in the chapter. You can continue to reach out to people and put in the face time to make friends. Find the people who respond to your friendly overtures and follow up with them. Let the rest go. Don't focus on the people who are bitchy. Focus on the people who are friendly.

You're the only one who can decide if it's worth it to continue to make the effort. It's your decision. If it's not worth it to you, then it's not worth it.
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