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Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna
If you resign, they will win.  |
Yep. That really, really sums it up.
Wear your letters 24/7/365 so everyone KNOWS who is really in your sorority. Be loud and proud and let them know that you're not going away just because you don't look like a movie star.
Give these new girls some time and get to know them one on one. I know they may be a LOT different than what you're used to, but you might be surprised at how it turns out. Here's another side of the coin: these girls probably feel a bit defensive themselves and possibly like they are only being "used" for their looks. That's not fun.
You might try having a sisterhood retreat just to get everything on the table. I also agree with everyone who's said go to whomever is above your advisor. She may have good intentions, but her manner of implementation is crap.