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I think I'd give roses if that's the tradition.
Would it be too weird to have the female members of your group kind of take a background role in handing the roses or singing on that night? I don't mean not be there, but have the guys be in the front and be the ones to hand the roses to the female new members?
I don't think that new sorority members should be offended to take a freezer pop or rose from a female member of your group, but if there's a romantic/crush element to which individual members hand the roses at all the other groups and a suggestion of potentially reciprocated interest, then I can kind of understand why it can get awkward for the heterosexual sorority women.
If you all just let the dudes do the handing out, it kind of goes away.
I think the three group mixer sounds like a great idea to me.
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