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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
You've changed your story. In the OP, you said she was just average and now you're saying she has a dicey reputation. Slut is not average. Or druggy or whatever. If you are a sophomore yourself, you were not part of member selection and the discussion involved is not your business, even though you are a member now. Although it's not cool for your sister to be saying these things to a rushee, your choice is to either go to standards and narc on your sister, or keep your trap shut and use your voice and your vote however your MS works.
But what I'm feeling here is jealousy of this "just average" girl who is loved and adored by so many of your sisters. Maybe you felt like it was hard for you to get in your sorority and she's just skating right in. Of course, I could be completely off base here, but that was the first thing that popped into my mind.
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I think she's fine. Not in love with her, don't hate her at all and have never had a problem with her. I know shes rubbed some girls the wrong way and thats where the dicey reputation comes into play. I haven't seen her out and about, but suddenly stories are emerging from all over the place about behavior in all kinds of social settings. If there is a green eyed monster lurking about, its not me. Really, I think she's fine. No qualms here besides the fact that my sister would tell her in public and at parties that she's *definitely* getting her in and talking about all their plans once she was in the chapter and how exciting it would be.
Which is awkward since the girl in question was recently cut..