Quote:
	
	
		| 
					Originally Posted by James  So anyhow, when I get together with them later  I will treat them both to a really nice dinner, quiz them and allow them to gush about the highlights of the wedding, show me pics, and make the appropriate noises. 
 I suppose I am still obligated to give them a gift with their dinner? Where is Emily Post when you need her.
 | 
	
 One is never "obligated" to give a gift.  And in this circumstance, I would say treating them to dinner = a gift.  But if you feel the need to have something in addition, I'd get a nice 5x7 or so picture frame for one of those pics they'll be showing you.