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What's wrong with looking at it this way. I invite people to my home. They just don't show up for parties - they're invited. So, we invite PNMs to our chapters. They "accept" or "decline" based on their rankings of us. After all, a bid is an invitation to join. We invite; they accept or decline. It is mutual - but we're the ones having the parties...so we get to say who's invited.
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