its nothing like that, shes fine with me getting in and shes even doing a different one! and she's so excited about it! i feel like my heart isn't in it because i dont see myself partying with most of these girls, or even really being friends with them. SOMETIMES i get a good feeling like this is something i want to do, but even then it's just to be able to say i'm in one. and after awhile my gut feeling comes back and i feel terrible. How do you know if youre in the right sorority because i feel like i'm not