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Originally Posted by Titchou
This!!! My big was this way...and that was fine. She did her job with me. I just wasn't that close to her. Even some people who were in the chapter with us now think that another member was my big because we were - and still are- so close. Even she thinks she was my big! Au contraire!
I just wouldn't worry about it. As long as you have good friends there among the other members, count your blessings!
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My sophomore year, I took two littles. One was 19 (the bar age in Champaign), and the other wasn't. I'm not gonna lie, post-initiation, I spent more time with the older one because we could go out together. The other one was closer to her own pledge sisters than to me, and ended up on exec, and really did a lot more for our chapter. I would say that, overall, she got a lot more out of her sorority experience.