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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
This is not me being mean, so keep that in mind please.
WCSweet is right. You can tell him about it, but if it's something he doesn't really get, or see the importance of, don't be upset if he's just like "oh" and then does nothing. Or if he talks to his brothers about it and they're like "wtf? no way!!!" Especially if your school isn't big on it.
Also, do you really want a lavaliere that you had to talk someone into giving you? Wouldn't you rather have a more meaningful give that he like, chose?
Sidenote: I went to a school that was big on lavaliering and let me just say that lavaliering doesn't always = engagement and eventual marriage. Even with people who have been together for a long time. So I probably don't see it as a "must do" thing the way others do.
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That bold part was absolutely my experience, too. To me, it seemed more akin to wearing a guy's class ring in high school.