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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
I don't want anyone who isn't being paid by my insurance plan going below or seeing anything below my waist. If I really don't want to see what's going on down there, no one who isn't a medical professional is going to be scoping it out either. My fellas were relieved when i said that, and there has been agreement that no one wants to spoil the magic so to speak. My own mother and I often clash, so I think if it wasn't my partner in the room, or there could be two people, it'd definitely be either/or my eldest sister (biological) or the youngest of my older sisters (step) since they've been through it and get me better than my mother does.
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When my sister had my niece, it was just her and my mother in the room. She became single about halfway through her pregnancy, so a partner wasn't an option. It was always the plan for my mom to be there, but since her water broke on our way home from Christmas Eve dinner, we all got a little more involved with the whole experience.
It was good birth control for a 15 year old.
Having seen how my mom acted with my sister (at one point telling her to suck it up and stop screaming), I know that when it's time for me to give birth, my mom is not the one. My mother's also of the school where husbands/fathers shouldn't be in the room, but I think that's an old school thing.