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Originally Posted by IrishLake
If I weren't pregnant, I'd be drinking. She called and left me a message today. She's still so upset and she wants to express to me how upset she is.
I broke down and called my brother. Basically, she's so pissed because the other girl she WOULD have asked will now likely say no, because she'll feel second tier. And she doesn't want her friend to feel second tier (she asked all her other bridesmaids in some special way, me not included).
But it's cool for her to make her pregnant future sister-in-law pressured into buying a dress about 5-6 months before it needs to be done.
I am going to reach through this phone and throttle her.
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It sounds like you did all you could do; you offered a resolution in a timely manner. Isn't her second-tier friend already going to know that she's ...wait for it ....second-tier? I mean she's not a bridesmaid today, so she knows she's 2nd string. Whatever.
I'd chalk some of this up to "pre-bride bizarreness," shake it off, and go ahead and be happy for your brother and his bride.