[IrishLake]

I opt for Option D, none of the above. Go read some of the recently bumped threads. Give your group a longer chance and see how it goes. Talk about your concerns to your sorority mentor (if you have one) and the new member educator. And remember - you are going to get out of your experience what you put into it. You still sound bitter that you didn't get #1 or #2. You were not high enough on their bid lists to receive a bid. There is no computer mistake. #3 wanted you though, and that should say something. Find the girls who don't go out and party and attempt to bond with them. If it doesn't get any better before you initiate, then de-pledge. At least then you gave it a fair shot. Keep in mind though that if you do de-pledge and decide to rush as a junior, you will have to go through all of the rounds with the house you dropped from, AND the other groups will know that you pledged and then dropped out. Not to mention your class status will put you at a bigger disadvantage.