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Originally Posted by AGDee
THANK YOU! I don't get it either. It's one thing to have a destination wedding for immediate family only. Once you're inviting all kinds of people, it makes no sense to me. Do you really want me to spend $1000 to go to some destination for your wedding? It isn't going to happen and it feels selfish (on their part) when I get those invites.
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I am the type of person who would be ALL about a destination wedding (that is, if I don't elope in Vegas, or something). If that were to happen one day, though, I might invite a handful of people who aren't family, but I wouldn't expect them to come. How'd I'd convey that to them, I'm not really sure. I might also think about paying a portion of the bridal party's way, considering I'd be saving so much money by not having a huge ceremony and 200+ guests back home.
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Originally Posted by Drolefille
*Random aside: I also have a strict rule that if I die in a car accident or by something stupid that was my fault, my friends and family are forbidden from a) making my death the spur for some cause to ban whatever stupid shit I was doing and b) putting up a roadside memorial. Because I think those things are dumb.
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Thank you!