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Originally Posted by knight_shadow
True, and I wouldn't have said anything if it weren't for:
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Originally Posted by greekdee
(or any for that matter.) Fraternity is the correct way to refer to a guy's Greek organization
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Very valid point. It's also worth reminding people (again) that the idea of "frat" being offensive is a fairly recent thing.
But back to the OP's original question, if I were the guy you're talking about, I'd find it very weird, to say the least. I wouldn't do it, at least not out of the blue.
The only thing I'll add is to slow down on picking which fraternities you might be interested in, and don't place too much emphasis on who's considered "Top 5." Sure, the websites can be helpful in getting a feel for the groups, and rankings may be more important to some than to others, but the bottom line is whether you mesh with the other guys, and you won't know that until you meet them.
Your top fraternity is the one where you fit best.