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Professor,
You said in one of your most recent posts that, (and I quote) "Love does not instantly end when faced with trials." If you believe this to be try, why don't you admit your "indiscretion" to your soon-to-be wife? Why not face this trial WITH her and give HER the opportunity to decide on HER future with you? This may make your love go stronger. IMO, I think that you are insecure about losing her. Maybe you feel that your relationship is not strong enough to withstand this trial. If you REALLY feel that your love is strong enough to spend the rest of your life with her, you should respect her enough to inform her and let her decide where things should go. Love is supposed to be a 50/50 partnership, not a dictatorship.
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