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Originally Posted by dnall
I'm going to refuse to comment on the personal stuff, and you should all be ashamed of yourselves.
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Like I said...if you don't want people to pick it up...don't put it on the street. (ETA: LOL at the fact that I quoted the relatively benign quote, and you went back and dug your hole some more.)
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Originally Posted by dnall
It's like 200 in her chapter, pledge class I think close to 60. They had Wed night pledge class socials that she had late class and an 8am so didn't go to about half of those, but did try very very hard to get to know her pledge sisters. She was a couple years older then them, having transferred, and had trouble relating to a bunch of snooty 18yo girls versus some of the older actives (maybe that sounds ironic given the above info, or maybe it doesn't I don't know).
I get that her new member educator epically sucked by that chapter's standards, and that the chapter in question is weak in that area compared to presumably every other sorority on campus. But that's how it worked out. Now she's back & forth between wanting to drop and loving it.
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I'm betting that if a guy pledging your fraternity said these things, you would say "stop with the excuses. If you're not committed to this fraternity, the door is that way." But because it's a girl, she should get a pass? No.
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Originally Posted by dnall
I don't know. I don't care anymore. None of this was the point. Only that a shitty pledge program makes for a horrible greek experience.
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Again, excuses. Your Greek experience is what you make of it. If you want to keep blaming it on "my pledge mom didn't make sure everyone knew me" or "my pledge mom was lazy" or "my pledge mom was a bitch" - well, why not go further. Say your Greek experience is horrible because the shirt you got on bid day didn't fit, or the cheesecake you got at pref didn't have a strawberry on it and everyone else's did.