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Originally Posted by tiana01
Actual its the social commitee so its really relaxed and last for a a few hours but I enjoy it! I do not even notice the time.
Yes, I was aware of this also!
1) I do NOT blame my chapter for my dislike! They have put as much effort as I have! Its more like i am not clicking with the girls so far and vice versa. Like KSUViolet said maybe i just have to live in to be closer! Which I am next year! And even this has gotten me closer to some girls.
2) I feel that I have not Bad mouthed my chapter. I just said I am not close to anyone.
3) Our chapter already does all thosethings you listed!  Even I have said ideas for sisterhoods.
4) Im not expecting to be BFF instantly but atleast be more than an associate. Also i do not treat my chapter like i am dissappointed in them when they day ends they are still my sisters.
I have gone through recruitment as an active. |
Welp, you know all of the answers already. There ya go.
I still say that your desire to transfer for financial and home sick reasons can create a tone of "someone PLEASE make me happy" and "I'm only here as long as I can be here" that other sisters may sense.
Also, note that there can be a difference between "I do not like my chapter" and "I'm not close to any of the members...yet." You've already decided that you do not like them. I definitely consider that both a self-fulfilling prophecy and bad mouthing your chapter.