[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by tiana01

Thank you KSUViolet06. It was not a big help because the orginal poster was only in there for two weeks. I have already been intiated and its been six months since seven if you include the new member term. So I have tried the tips that other users have suggested on that thread.

Ok. I'm going to try to be honest here and hopefully you can appreciate that. Here's the thing. I know it's not fun to feel like you don't fit in, but transfering to a new chapter doesn't = instant happiness and best friends and ponies and rainbows.

Transfering to another school doesn't mean that things will be different.

Those women at your new school aren't going to be your instant BFFs.

In some ways, it's harder to build relationships as a transfer because you have the additional hurdle of being completely NEW to their school.

They will have their own pledge classes/cliques/etc. and it's not going to be "omg soooo much better than my old school" right away.

If that's what you think, you should probably re-evaluate switching schools.

Just like any other relationship in life, sorority relationships take time. There are some people who didn't feel at home in their sorority until they lived in house. Maybe you're one of those people.

You're obviously going to do whatever you want, I'm just saying that transfering isn't going to be the magic cure for not fitting in somewhere else. You could very well find yourself not fitting in with your NEW chapter sisters as well.