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Old 10-28-2010, 09:29 AM
AlphaFrog AlphaFrog is offline
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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel View Post
That's your choice to make and how you responded to someone who called you out, but it appears she doesn't feel the same and no one can make someone admit to something they aren't ready to or that they don't believe is true. I have a background in psychology as well and that doesn't mean any of us are hyper aware of our own perception we're putting out for others and have control over everything at any time. As much as we'd like people to see the reality we see and how we think it would help them to be like us, it frankly isn't going to happen on our time line no matter how much we want it to.
I get that. And, no I don't think she needs to be like me. How she responds is her choice, but you don't necessarily do any favors for someone by just letting them continue in a manner that is so blatently different from their previous attitude. Drolefille's never been a stereotypical southern sorority queen, but lately the contrainess (I don't think that's actually a word, but whatever) to social norms has hit new levels.
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