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Originally Posted by lady_chem
The thing that bugs me most is that two girls in my MRC group would always complain and make fun of stuff ABC did at their parties, and would go on about how stupid and cheesy it was. I found it beautiful. They both are in ABC now. I want to be slightly infuriated.
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This happened to me when I went through a structured informal the day we got our invites back. All of my top 4 chapters had dropped me and girls were complaining they got back my favorite. It's disheartening.
That being said, after other informal recruitment, I ended up accepting a bid to what was a chapter that had not impressed me (but that I hadn't disliked) through a COB situation. While I may not have felt a connection through the stress of visiting so many chapters, one on one, I love these girls now and loved them at their COB event, etc. I'm so happy I ended up where I did. Even though it's only been a few weeks, they have been some of the best of my college experience.