[Drolefille]

Ok let me try and break this down. From the PNM's side: PNMs can make stupid decisions, they can also make decisions based on a feeling that they might not adequately be able to explain to the parents. We don't know how this PNM decided anything.

From the parent's side: Parents only know what their PNM tells them. Parents should be careful at making blanket statements about why their PNM was cut, invited back, or anything about how the chapter actually is rather than how their PNM perceived the chapter.

Member's side: We don't like when people make quick judgements about chapters but we do forget the above perspectives sometimes. And we forget that a PNM does not have to be ~thrilled~ to be invited back to a chapter she truly doesn't feel she clicks with. However, that cuts both ways and PNMs who have made those decisions should expect lower returns and a smaller chance of getting a bid.