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Old 08-14-2010, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by 33girl View Post
See my above post.

I don't want to get too nebby as to different groups' operations, but I'd guess that national offices require more than "it just wasn't for me" as a self-termination excuse. We had a woman try to self-terminate and she was denied because she didn't have valid reasons. If they don't tell you why, then the chapter shouldn't sign off on the termination/should request HQ doesn't approve it. Yes, it sounds a little blackmaily but I believe if someone's quitting they should show a little courtesy and tell you if it's them not you, rather than make you think the sorority's to blame.
So, this obviously varies based on the (NPC) sorority. My question, if you don't mind my asking, is whether the denial was "successful." Were you all able to get her to want to stay beyond being forced to stay? How does it work in terms of sisterhood and interaction when someone is denied the ability to self-terminate? I don't recall this topic on GC before as it pertains to the NPC.
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