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Originally Posted by Katmandu
I also think that a lot of people say "maximize your options" when they mean sticking with recruitment through the pref parties, since some women claim to have been cut from rush when they actually have dropped out prior to pref with one or more viable options still possible. Yes, it hurts to be cut by your favorite chapters before pref, but as we all know, opinions change, and sometimes they change a lot after pref night. A sorority that seemed just "ok" the day or two before can suddenly become "the one". Some chapters just don't shine in the hectic early rounds.
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Exactly. One sorority during my rush wasn't impressing me that greatly until Sisterhood Day and on Pref Day they blew me away... All my "favorite" chapters cut me before Pref Day. Honestly, if PNMs would give up
an hour of their time to see what it's like to be an XYZ and have a little more in depth conversations with the actives, their minds would probably change. It's sad to see so many PNMs so preoccupied with their favorites and not giving another group a chance.