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Originally Posted by abbeydae
I'm not sure if this is the right place to put this question, but it's regarding facebook and recruitment.
I met this girl at orientation and we discovered that we had a mutal friend (who happens to be an XYZ) and we are both going through recruitment, so we added each other on facebook. Yesterday was her birthday so I wrote a birthday message on her wall. She wrote this on my wall:
"thank u so much girl! u excited for rush?? get pumped! XYZ PC10!!!!!"
I deleted it off my wall, was that the right thing to do? I'm friends with girls from other houses and I didn't want them to thing I'm biased.
Your thoughts?
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You just did both of you a huge favor. Not only could it possibly have an effect on your interactions with the other sororities, it could seriously piss off XYZ. PNM's who ASSume they will be joining a certain chapter often get passed over because their sorority of choice doesn't appreciate a girl who thinks she's the shiznit. But then, no one does.
If she notices you deleted it you might want to throw her a bone by repeating that advice in a tactful way. She might hurt her chances with XYZ if she keeps that up.