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Originally Posted by honeychile

I would be willing to bet that is one of the reasons some legacies are being ignored; they don't want to be there.

This happens too.

Now i'm not saying that EVERY legacy acts this way, but I think sometimes parents don't get that they weren't THERE to see how their child acted at their legacy houses' party.

Sometimes, legacies don't WANT an invite. So they act accordingly.

Not saying they are outright bitchy, but some of them have at look of "don't want to be here" going on, and they're just obviously uninterested.

So they get cut, and mom is wondering how on Earth it happened, not realizing that her kid didn't want to go XYZ in the first place.

She obviously doesn't want to cut XYZ (mom would be upset) so she just gets cut herself. She'd also rather be cut than tell mom she's not interested.

I think our policies are in place so that we don't have to bid THAT legacy and she can seek out opportunities elsewhere.