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Old 07-21-2010, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by AGDee View Post
While I agree with what KSUViolet said, people also need to understand that sometimes one partner lies their asses off during these sessions, makes all kinds of "promises" and then doesn't follow through on a single one of them once they are actually married.
One of the reasons why EE appealed to me was that the priest and hosts are not involved in the personal talks between the couples. They give a talk, then we separate to write, then the couples get back together and talk alone for a while. I have a feeling that if a third party was involved in our conversations, we wouldn't be as honest...I think we'd find a way to sugar coat things, or we'd keep quiet about some things because we just wouldn't want to talk about them with a stranger.
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