[MasTNX]

Do you think legacies should be given any special treatment at all? If it's a super competitive school and there aren't enough spots for all legacies much less everyone else, then should legacies be given any type of 'head start' like a Legacy Luncheon before recruitment? It would seem like an unfair advantage, but isn't just being a legacy an advantage that wasn't earned?

As for my daughter, the mom in me wants to say that I will hover. Before intake, I would want to know that she has made a good impression. During intake, I would want to know what is going on. After she emerges, I would want to know if she was representing the Sorority well. However, I know that none of that is particularly helpful to her or the chapter and I will need to fall back.

I understand the mom's heartbreak though. It's tough.