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Originally Posted by ree-Xi
As for their comments being insincere, I think you find such statements in any social situation. Say you're at a party where you know maybe one or two people. You might meet a bunch of new people, some who maybe you didn't click with, or might not run in the same circles with. When parting, what do people say? "Nice to meet you!" "Hope to see you again!"
I would rather have girls be polite to me than glare at me and roll their eyes because we didn't click, or say "BUH-bye". I'm sorry that you feel slighted, but you have only a few choices when saying goodbye to a lot of people you just met. It's so important not to read into anything, no matter what situation you are in, whether it's recruitment, a job interview, or audition.
Lastly, there could be sisters who sincerely want to see you again. Every group has their own membership selection practices, so there could be a contingent of girls who did want you to come back. There are so many variables.
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I didn't say I felt slighted. I was wondering whether this is a rehearsed thing sisters usually say this to girls who get released or they actually might be interested in me. Oh I also don't know if it makes a difference but I went to the informal recruitments and didn't go to formal at all. On the other hand I'm going to be a junior. However my school is not that big on greek life, the biggest chapter probably has only 80 girls.
About feeling awkward, they were the ones who approached me afterward I didn't go up to them. I actually felt awkward. lol
EDITED: to clear it up informal for the sororities at my school happens during different times so I was able to go check them out. I also went not knowing a clue what was happening (just to check it out) but ended up loving it toward the end. I do think that made a difference between me and the other girls who hardcore wanted it and had letters of recs and knew a lot of the girls already.