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Originally Posted by yougc
I'll keep you updated  .
I do know what I want, but often times it can come out a bit "explosive" like I would tend to get excited over the littlest things that get me happy and I'm afraid that freaks the introverted person out or they start thinking I'm crazy. I don't want to act like a complete opposite. I say what I say is on my mind(not always a good thing  ) and do things that can sometimes seem obsessive or overbearing. Then when I realize, it can be too late. I see the look on the other person's face like I'm a freak.
I can't control myself especially when I'm happy, but for an introverted person it might scare them. So when I'm with him, it takes an enormous amount of control to just relax, nod, smile and keep my voice to a minimum, and not wave my arms around like a mad person.  |
As long as you feel like you're being you. I'd recommend stop trying to think of him as an introverted person and instead thinking of him as, well, him. A lot of his personality could just be him, or your individual relationship with him and not based on introversion vs. extroversion.
Re: your edit: You might not be compatible but you also might be. You're early in a relationship and you're still figuring it all out.