All great answers. Thank you.

Our relationship at the moment is very new. So I'm at the stage where its hard to read the signs exactly what direction this guy of mine wants to take (whether it be just friends or more).

-physical touch/affection
-words of affirmation
-gifts
-acts of service
-quality time

I don't see any of this yet. Though not sure what 'words of affirmation' mean. He is polite, listens and responds with some concern, joking, and fun, but as for any so called act of chivalry or going out of his way to spend time with me, I actually don't see that yet. Maybe I'm missing the signs. In fact, he hasn't made an effort on his part to come after me if we are separated for a time. So I feel (and this is just me) that if I were to ever lose contact, if I stopped on my end, then that would be the end of us. It feels like that. He has told me before that he doesn't want me to stop talking to him, but it's not the same as I miss you phrase.

As for me, I'm not sure if I want this. I really, really like him, sure, but if like 5 years down the road and I'm still the one voicing the love and affection with being in the dark with how he feels about me, I feel, yeah, I would be wasting my time. I brought this to his attention once and he got angry a bit for me mentioning it, saying that he did like talking with me, but had a problem being an introvert.

I'm leaning towards giving up and not wanting to figure out the details later down the road. I've been in bad relationship before where there is a lack of a lot of things, and I'm sorta at that age where I would like someone to be more expressive. Such a shame I guess. But thanks to everyone for their stories and advice! If anyone has got more to say, please do!