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Originally Posted by 33girl

I know this might seem the easiest, but the fact is you probably didn't all put down the same sororities on your bid cards and girls shouldn't feel like they have to go somewhere they don't feel comfy with out of a sense of loyalty.

This.

Don't be so stuck on being a "package deal" with the other girls that you accept without even thinking about it.

Ask yourself: "Would I be happy in this chapter even if my NM/pledge classmates didn't join with me?"

You never know what could happen. Girls could decide they don't like it as much as they did your former chapter (that closed), they may decide Greek Life is not for them, they could join and quit.

If you choose to accept this chapter's bid, make sure it's a decision you're making because you like the chapter and can see YOURSELF as a member, not just because they offered you all bids and you want to stay together.