[33girl]

I will say - whatever you decide to do, please be straight up with the sisters from the closed chapter and let them know your plans. No, this is not required but it is a courteous thing to do. These women are hurting a lot and the last thing they need to hear from a 3rd hand source is "hey, Rosiegal joined ABC's rival! Ha ha ha on ABC!" If you are straightforward and honest, I don't think your former sisters will be upset or mad at you.

If the chapter that offered you a bid is one that you would like to pledge, go ahead and do so.

If you're worried about being "damaged goods" - this really isn't something that anyone on here can tell you absolutely yes or absolutely no on. It also depends on whether you and your pledge sisters are trying to stick together as a "package deal." I know this might seem the easiest, but the fact is you probably didn't all put down the same sororities on your bid cards and girls shouldn't feel like they have to go somewhere they don't feel comfy with out of a sense of loyalty.

Hope this helped a little bit.