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Originally Posted by als463
Giving an organization 2 weeks is hardly "making an effort" like you say. It almost sounds like you decided to depledge, not because you didn't feel a "connection" with these women but, because you thought you may have been "too good" for these women. 
Every NPC at Florida is incredible and if you check out each chapter's website, you will see that they all strive for the same thing-SISTERHOOD. I don't feel bad for your decision making and I don't think someone who believes she is "above" certain chapters really deserves a second chance at an SEC school when she is a Junior. Normally I would say "good luck" and that I hope you find a home at any of the incredible chapters at Florida. This time-not so much. |
She admitted she effed up. That's more than a lot of people do on here. Ease up a bit
. The way I read it, she DID pledge an "upper tier" house but was unhappy and wished she would have overlooked the tent talk and joined the lower tier house.
abcd89, if that is the case, and you do rush again, be aware that some of the women in the chapter you didn't rank as highly as you should won't exactly be sympathetic. We had a similar situation with a girl we loved who totally shafted us for the "top" chapter, and when we heard years later that she was unhappy, the general attitude was "oh, boo hoo for her" (heavy on the sarcasm).
You screwed up, you admitted it, now move on.