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I think that college is a time of change and growth. This is the first time that many young women are testing the waters in the great big ocean. Obviously EVERY high school has a popular clique. What happens when you have hundreds of bright, beautiful girls ALL of whom were somebody in high school suddenly in one huge recruitment class? Not everyone will be Miss Popularity, and that is perfectly ok, as long as you (the girl) understands that she is still that wonderful, beautiful, smart funny girl that she was four months ago.
Perhaps you're from a small town. Your fashion may have been perfect.....there. Your knowledge of what's in and what's no was perfect.......there. Suddenly you find yourself at......Harvard. EVERYONE there was the best and the brightest in their hometown. Now, someone will be at the bottom, some will be in the middle and one person will graduate first in their class. You try your best, you march to a new tune and hopefully you'll evolve into the wonderful adult that you are meant to become. Some kids run home because they don't have the "stuff" to find a new self. What matters is the education and the friends you make along the way. And sometimes you get hit in the nose with the "wrong" bid, or no bid. Then it's what you make of it that counts.
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