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Originally Posted by naturalveil
There really wasn't any need for the nastiness in your message...if that was a result of me using "sorors", sorry for the misterminology. I felt repetitive saying "the Deltas" over and over again, I meant it as a reference to them as sisters to each other, not MY sisters (I know they are not). I think you made a lot of assumptions and passed judgment unnecessarily (for example, I don't remember saying he and I are having sex, and referring to me as his "jumpoff" and him as a manwhore? that's a big leap for a stranger to make.) All you really had to say was they may or may not be bothered by it, since that's what I was asking. But uh, thanks.
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So now you know not to use the term soror--a lesson learned.
But you have a bigger one to learn. Maybe if you had read your own post you would have seen how it would come across to others. It screams of implications that led to easily made assumptions. For example--serious relationship. Since you didn't indicate anywhere in your post that you are super religious the assumption would be that sex is involved.
Second, a man who has casual sex is called a manwhore. Simple as that.
Third, you came on a public messgae board of strangers and tell us TMI. Then you wonder why the reaction is such. Your need to expound about the relationship was unncessary. All you had to say ask was is it better to keep a relationship with a D9 member secret if you are an interest? However, your justification of the relationship shows that deep down you know something isn't right. And your reaction to others saying it speaks volumes.
Finally, insulting a member of the org to which you belong is never a good thing. The D9 world is too small.