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Originally Posted by DrPhil
You're nothing more than his "jump off." He's having sex with other people. He doesn't want a public relationship because he wants to keep doing what he's doing. He is probably the campus frat manwhore.
This has absolutely nothing to do with membership in an organization. 
ETA: The Deltas (do NOT call them "sorors"--your self-professed boyfriend should've told you that) may or may not be bothered that you're having sex with someone a few of them had sex with. That's only if they want him like that and care enough for it to impact your membership chances. They certainly aren't the only sorority and nonsorority women who have had sex with him on campus. But, it is probably moreso that you THINK the campus frat manwhore who is making you paranoid about outing your relationship is actually your boyfriend. That is laughable. |
There really wasn't any need for the nastiness in your message...if that was a result of me using "sorors", sorry for the misterminology. I felt repetitive saying "the Deltas" over and over again, I meant it as a reference to them as sisters to each other, not MY sisters (I know they are not). I think you made a lot of assumptions and passed judgment unnecessarily (for example, I don't remember saying he and I are having sex, and referring to me as his "jumpoff" and him as a manwhore? that's a big leap for a stranger to make.) All you really had to say was they may or may not be bothered by it, since that's what I was asking. But uh, thanks.