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Originally Posted by als463
You realize that by saying you attend an SEC school, with the name GA girl, and talking about respecting the Student Body President in your chapter, even though you aren't a "top tier" chapter on campus, it took me seconds to know what school and what sorority. I'm horrible at these types of searches (compared to other seasoned GCers) and I have to say that by giving out information about yourself, you will be lucky if the ladies in your chapter find out who you are and get upset that you blasted their dirty laundry on Greek Chat. You totally put your chapter on blast. Discretion is key.
You should consider yourself blessed to be a member of an NPC at an SEC school (or any school, for that matter). If you think you are above these girls and don't want to stay, don't stay. They took a chance on you and now you are ready to drop them. Wow! So much for sisterhood.
And for the record, your chapter may not be top on your campus, but I am here to tell you that it is a great sorority. Have some allegiance to the women who gave you a bid.
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The only SEC school in Georgia doesn't do deferred recruitment, so she isn't being that obvious. Also she didn't say Student Body president, but members of student government, and there are lots of those from all kinds of groups. If it is like my school that could be the person who is on a committee to bring musical acts and one of 100 people, and there is a full Greek representation.
gagril90-
You mentioned having some emotional issues, and you've sought help. Keep doing that with professionals and don't take it personally if your sisters don't get as involved as you expect them to. Sometimes people really don't see another needs help, can't emotionally deal with it, or have the same issue and helping you makes them face it. It isn't that sisters cannot be supportive and a great resource, but use the campus professionals like the health and counseling center and I commend you for admitting you have issues and that you've gotten help. Many people are in denial or refuse to do something about it and you've done the hardest part. Maybe taking care of "you" will help you see the perspective of your chapter and you'll learn a better way to address issues or get to the heart of the matter.