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Originally Posted by sigmagirl10
I am familiar with the girls myself--not friends (as one of my sisters is, the one who gave us the information) but certainly acquaintances, and I've seen some of their questionable behavior myself.
The main issue is the alcohol issues, both the citations and the behavior some of us have witnessed (let's just say they spend waaaaayyy too much time at a particular fraternity)--an obvious liability, as well as possibly making some of our shyer sisters uncomfortable. Beyond that, they are the sweetest, nicest girls, very pretty, with definite leadership potential.
It's not about whether or not they've had alcohol (come on, we're in college!) it's whether they can be discrete and ladylike about it. We pride ourselves on classy behavior, traditional values, and high academic achievement...but it was not high school, it was a citation in the last couple of months (which they all got)--some unfortunate incident involving minors in possession though I'm not sure the exact circumstances.
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1. If YOU witnessed the behavior then don't credit someone else:
"but not too long ago one of our members (who knows a couple of the girls) revealed some information to us about several of the girls on our list"
2. Who cares which guys they spend time with?
3. You keep contradicting yourself.
If you don't want to offer someone a bid, then DON'T GIVE THEM A BID. Posting negative information about PNMs or info regarding issues within your membership selection process, ESPECIALLY with a name that hints to your affiliation, is a NO-NO. Colony or not, you should already know that. If you don't, now is the time to learn your lesson and keep chapter issues WITHIN the chapter.
Why people don't go to their advisors is beyond me (and yes, this is an issue that new members of a colony should discuss with an advisor or trusted alumnae (from a different chapter of course, bc they are new) - how to weed out PNMs).