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Originally Posted by acedawg00-02
Male or female...I'm not here to take sides...but I think that most people have a problem with the truth...
And the truth is...
If you are going to conduct yourself as if you have no self-respect, integrity...morals or values...get the f*** out of the relationship - don't drag others down with you!! Not only do you run the risk of causing great emotional damage and humiliation (as seen in this case)....but you also run the risk of exposing your partner to a number of STD's or even HIV/AIDS.
In my opinion, a coward is one who chooses not be be honest and commits infidelity - the sh*t is totally unacceptable.
I will agree that this situation could have been handled in a more mature fashion...but I do believe that in order to get respect, you must first give it...and this young lady lacked decency and respect on all levels.
I have no sorrow or sympathy for her, nor anyone else who cheats.
Whether it's a football player who ends up murdered b/c he forgets that he has a wife and children at home, or a politician who is publicly humiliated b/c he chooses to cheat on his terminally ill wife. Evil begets evil...
If you play a sick and disgusting game - expect sick and disgusting results.
As my grandmother used to say about lies and manipulation - "the only person you're fooling is yourself."
It's sad to say...but there are so many of us who think that we're exempt...and probably will not stop until we're caught...or until someone walks the dog on our a$$.
Karma is a b****...treat people the way you want to be treated.
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I have to say, I pretty much agree with everything you said.