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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Ranking your choices and signing that list basically says "I agree to accept a bid from ANY of the sororities on this list."
If you did not wish to accept a bid from any of those 3, you should not have put them on your list.
Example: If you knew you wouldn't take a bid from Tri Pi, the best thing to do would have been to leave them off.
However, I understand that many girls tend to feel like they HAVE to rank all 3. In reality, you should only rank all choices if you're willing to take a bid from ANY of them (not just one or two).
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Originally Posted by vanityfair5
 I didn't know this at the time! I wish I had!
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Circumstances like this hardly work out, chances are (just a guess, never really know of course) you would have gotten a bid to your third choice if you had left off Tri Pi.
Are you really realllllly trying to get to know everyone in Tri Pi? Or are you a closed door to them? Give them the chance they deserve. Open up to your new sisters, after all (hate to be so harsh here but...) Tri Pi wanted you, ZBZ did not.