[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Gusteau

^^Yeah, I could see someone in that situation making excuses so they don't have to write the rec and expose themselves as a perp.

I think the best way to go about it would be to confront her in a positive way like "Oh, D, Mrs. Smith told me you became a DEF, did you initiate after Snookie joined?" Of course she could lie about that too, but its a better way to approach it than "Listen ho, stop playin'!"

I vote for the latter. Totally.

In all seriousness: I wouldn't worry too much about it. Perps will eventually expose themselves (especially with 2 kids in the org--I'm sure they know that mom's not an ABC.")

I've never heard of anyone being able to perp their whole lives without being discovered.