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Originally Posted by i <3 myself
hey so like one of my friends told me tht you guys on this website will answer all of my greek relaed qustions, so here goes:::
i go to Alabama and im a freshman and i reallly wanted to rush but i got waaaaay too intinidated bc all of the sorority girls there are really beautiful and i always thought of myself as gorgeous, thats what everybody in highschool said, and well i pretty much got scared and didnt go thru rush. now 1 of my best friends in high school joined a sorority and i feel like were not firneds anymore and if i join a different house than her ill make her feel bad. so i really want to be in a top house. i mean im prettier than her so it shouldnt be too hard right? and i make semigood grades and ive always been able to get guys so that should help too right?? anyway i guess my question is should i rush in the spring or the fall?? what do u guys recommend as far as when i should rush and which top house i should aim for??
thanks in advance,
aimee
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If i were you i would quit worrying so much about being in a top house and find a group of girls that you fit into. that's what being in a sorority is about. it isnt about being with the most popular girls on campus, or whose prettier. that's shallow. and if those are the reason you want to be in a sorority then you should really rethink your decision. a sorority is about finding a bond that you will share with these women forever. and who cares about what your friend thinks? if she doesnt talk to you just because you go to a different house, then she wasnt your friend in the first place.