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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid
...would anyone ever consider having a background check on someone and if so under what circumstances?
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Definitely! I'd run the whole battery of tests. Background, Credit, STD, etc. before I married any man. I wouldn't do it secretly. I'd let him know what I intend to do and why I intend to do it. If he's uncomfortable and/or can't understand why its necessary then he's not meant to be married to me. Would you merge your Fortune 500 company with a company that you haven't thoroughly vetted? No. So, why would you merge your life with someone who you haven't fully vetted? This insn't one sided either. I would submit to all of the tests as well. They would not be optional for either of us. He needs to know as do I. There may be some things that you want to keep in the past, but if its big enough to show up on a background or credit check then it probably needs to be known.