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Originally Posted by SugarANDSpice
See! There you go again! lol
Yes, you bring up very valid and real points. Only time will tell. It has only been 8 months. So far, he has not shown me any reason to distrust him in any way whatsoever, even around other "highly attractive" women. He "only has eyes for me" which is something I really like about him. One of the reasons I was so surprised by the story he shared with me is b/c he is not a person I would think would ever do what he did 15 years ago. But I realize that's me knowing him today, not me knowing him 15 years ago. Today, he is a very grounded, responsible person who has his priorities in order. It has only been 8 months and only time will tell if the person he is today is really who he is or if that person from 15 years ago still comes out from time to time.
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Another issue I hadn't considered before: your man likes how he is around you. He told you these comments to see if it will freak you out. There could be more freaky things--but don't ask. Let it come out over time. The more comfortable he feels in sharing, the more he trusts you. Let him be the open book...